Author: AS
Protected: Plan B
Protected: The Plan
Protected: The Gilded Cage
Protected: Journal For Trauma Therapy #2
Protected: Journal For Therapy #1
Could’ve Been So Beautiful
I am more shaken up about this than I expected to be.
The loneliness. The battles with her. The battles with myself. The guilt. The deep and seeming unending unhappiness and seemingly, the illness.
All based on the “simple” fact that it was trauma all this time.
And now it’s far too late to heal it.
I feel numb. I’ve felt numb this whole time. It truly feels like an ending, and yet it’s not.
It feels like an ending because I’ve already lost so many jobs to this trauma. I’ve already wasted so many years of my life, as well as more than half of my father’s life, not to mention his health. His death too. All of it was absolutely for nothing.
That’s why I am where I am now, why I’ve had all of my here nows, and why I fear I can’t get out of it.
It’s probably also why I’ve had so much fear. Hell, it is why I’ve had so much fear. I’m almost certain of it now. It’s also why I’ve had so much uncertainty.
What a wasted life.
What a wasted life.
It all meant nothing.
That helped a lot, though.
It seems that my therapist was right: communicating openly and honestly does help. 🙂
I will try to keep this in mind going forward.
Unexpected?
BASIC RULES OF COMMUNICATION
- NEVER COMMENT ON A WOMAN’S APPEARANCE UNLESS YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER, in which case it should be only compliments, and often.
- NEVER SAY ANYTHING NEGATIVE ABOUT ANYONE’S RACE OR RELIGION UNLESS YOU INTEND TO DO HARM, in which case, expect consequences (i.e. being shut out, criticized, or cancelled)